Let's face it: Few of us are as organized as we aspire to be. If my husband and I were to pass away tomorrow, we'd leave a small pile of unfiled financial papers, a recently updated will (score one for us), and numerous accounts with many variations of passwords, all maintained online. We do have a list of our major financial institutions and account numbers, but it was last updated in 2005, which, by my calculations, makes it ancient history.
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We won't even mention how many times I've yelled across the house, "What's our vKey?" (That's the code Virgin Mobile requires before you can access your account.) Or how many times I've been coached by very patient account reps trying to help me: "Maybe your password starts with a 'U'?" And I'm the account owner, for Pete's sake. It turns out that my brain isn't such a secure place to store data after all.
In short, it would be possible for our heirs to get to the bottom of our finances and household affairs, but it would take some sleuthing. As a personal finance writer and spouse to Robert Brokamp, editor of The Motley Fool's Rule Your Retirement newsletter, I know better, but I don't always do better.
If You Leave Others Behind
If you, like me, are a bit behind on the updating, here are some things you need to do immediately to get your affairs in order:
If You're Left Behind
How do you cope with the financial mysteries left behind when someone else dies? If the deceased didn't leave behind clear records (or hasn't updated them in a while), it's not so elementary, dear Watson. Here are the places to look to see if your loved one had other accounts, assets, or insurance policies: